Going out, meeting

[Minx]

Hi,

I am a long time cd. I have been with guys before, but it is difficult since I don't go out dressed. I am on AFF and I refuse to host. I think that is the least a guy can do. So, I think the best way to meet guys is to just go out dressed so they meet me as a female and they are serious. I think what I want to do is go to Janet's, get a makeover, an outside wardrobe then go to a club. I think there's 2, gigs and Adam's apple. I am a cd, so I would have to use the guys bathroom. Are those places a good place to find cd admirers. Where do you gurls meet guys?

Thanks for your help,

[CanuckGirl]

Hi,

I am a long time cd. I have been with guys before, but it is difficult since I don't go out dressed. I am on AFF and I refuse to host. I think that is the least a guy can do. So, I think the best way to meet guys is to just go out dressed so they meet me as a female and they are serious. I think what I want to do is go to Janet's, get a makeover, an outside wardrobe then go to a club. I think there's 2, gigs and Adam's apple. I am a cd, so I would have to use the guys bathroom. Are those places a good place to find cd admirers. Where do you gurls meet guys?

Thanks for your help,

  Minx, I'm not sure how I can help you, but I have some comments. To be clear, though I do go out often fully femme I'm not looking for male company. Though sometimes some finds me, but that not what I'm looking for.
 
 I have heard of those clubs and you might very well find someone there. You are likely too far away from the Toronto Ontario area unless you travel here from time to time, but there's a club/bar/lounge called M4 a little west of downtown which has free admission for CD's and trans, (MtF's of course) on Tuesday nights. Some friends I know have found some hookups there. Though I'm sure there are other places like that.

 Then there would be online stuff. There's fetlife which is a porn kind of site where you post pictures and videos of yourself and others (with permission of course) bit it is also a good place to connect with others. Yes, online meetups are much trickier and personally I like to meet someone and feel if we have chemistry or not, then there's those who make a date and chicken out on you.
 So care and caution are the by words, which goes for any of these kind of meetups.

 Another possibility is a group called "Girls Night Out" or GNO for short. This is a widespread group that provides social activities for MtF's and they specifically allow admirers. If you can find them or one of their get togethers in your area or within travelling distance this might be a very good bet.
 I'm not a member but I have been to their parties, some time ago now, and I certainly could have had my choice of male "Admirers" to get to know better, shall I say. I resisted in case you are wondering.
 I hope this helps you.
 
 Let us know how you make out.
 Amy

[Suzy]

Hi,

I am a long time cd. I have been with guys before, but it is difficult since I don't go out dressed. I am on AFF and I refuse to host. I think that is the least a guy can do. So, I think the best way to meet guys is to just go out dressed so they meet me as a female and they are serious. I think what I want to do is go to Janet's, get a makeover, an outside wardrobe then go to a club. I think there's 2, gigs and Adam's apple. I am a cd, so I would have to use the guys bathroom. Are those places a good place to find cd admirers. Where do you gurls meet guys?

Thanks for your help,

Hi Minx - I think Gigi’s or Adams Apple there will be admirers.  I have only been to Gigi’s and have had a couple of men hit on me.  Was no biggie, and it was a lot of fun.  Also, in my experience there as a CD, I always use the ladies room!  Never had a problem - good luck - Suzy

[Minx]

Thank you so very much for your responses. Now I just need some courage. Again. Thank you