03-11-2019, 04:44 PM
Tasha, the best therapy is the kind you can get from just talking with others. A good therapist is a good listener, and one who asks you questions. Because, ultimately, you have the answer, you just know, or come to grips with, the answer. And the ladies on this forum help, because we want to help. We don't do it for any monetary gain. Something you get from someone who cares, is far more important than something you get from someone you paid.
As for clothes..... What clothes were you wearing when you were born? Was it pants? Shorts? A dress maybe? Right; it was nothing. So we are free to dress as we please. It is society that puts the pressure on people to dress they way 'they' think is appropriate. Now I can understand some types of clothes; a rain coat when it is pouring outside, or a heavy warm coat in the winter. But seriously; were all the men in ancient Rome, or Greece, cross-dressers? No, they were not. Did they suffer from gender dysphoria? No, they did not. Why can men not have to cover their chest at the beach; but a woman does. Really; it is just a body part. Then cover your arms, legs, and fingers too. That would be crazy. And what about me, I was genetically born a male, but within the next year, with hormones and implants, I too will have the breasts of a woman. So do I have to wear a top, or not? Whose 'rules' do I have to abide by.
Rules without logic are just opinions! Love ya, Michelle
As for clothes..... What clothes were you wearing when you were born? Was it pants? Shorts? A dress maybe? Right; it was nothing. So we are free to dress as we please. It is society that puts the pressure on people to dress they way 'they' think is appropriate. Now I can understand some types of clothes; a rain coat when it is pouring outside, or a heavy warm coat in the winter. But seriously; were all the men in ancient Rome, or Greece, cross-dressers? No, they were not. Did they suffer from gender dysphoria? No, they did not. Why can men not have to cover their chest at the beach; but a woman does. Really; it is just a body part. Then cover your arms, legs, and fingers too. That would be crazy. And what about me, I was genetically born a male, but within the next year, with hormones and implants, I too will have the breasts of a woman. So do I have to wear a top, or not? Whose 'rules' do I have to abide by.
Rules without logic are just opinions! Love ya, Michelle