02-26-2021, 05:43 PM
I feel your pain and understand completely how you feel back when I was living with my ex gf she not only accepted my crossdressing but embraced it and encouraged me to be who I wanted to be when I wanted to. I had an extreme advantage with her being a formal professional makeup artist who helped transform me into a more than passable actually a very hot looking female.When we would go out yes I got a lot of attention but it was warranted and well deserved. Fast forward to my current wife who when I brought the subject up and wearing ladies bras and panties during sex because we saw it in a video we were watching, she wasn't very receptive to the idea and first agreed to me wearing panties only but for me it wasn't enough. She agreed to me wearing anything I wanted but she didn't want to be a part of it so in other words when I was alone I could dress fem but half the fun is being with an accepting partner like my ex gf and I enjoyed. Then our life took an extreme left turn when my wife explored her deep seated repressed desire to be with a woman, well she is now happily bisexual and it has brought on a whole new dimension to our sex and home life. She brought the subject up of me dressing up and being part of a threesome with her and her girlfriend. I willingly accepted and the two of them enjoyed helping me with my hair and make up etc. so I was now free to be a woman once again, the sex I truly believe I was born to be. She has done a complete 180 degree turn around and we even went to a Halloween party with me fully dressed as a woman we have also enjoyed the excitement of being out in public in certain club venues etc.
So never say never now to my suggestion, casually bring it up or if you two enjoy watching porn perhaps pick one with a crossdresser or shemale in the plot and see what her reaction is, you know her and what her comfort level is when it comes to broaching the subject. If she is not totally turned off by it then casually bring it up and take it a step further. I had a gf that one afternoon after having some really good sex she wanted to go get something to eat and asked me to hand her her bra, I took the opportunity to goof around and held it up to my man boobs flirting with her saying how do I look I think I could rock this, she laughed and said I bet you can come here lets see and she had me put my arms through the straps and she hooked me up, I never fully dressed fem for her but wearing bras and panties became part of our sex life. Its all finding the right way to bring up the subject. Good luck go slow and be patient
So never say never now to my suggestion, casually bring it up or if you two enjoy watching porn perhaps pick one with a crossdresser or shemale in the plot and see what her reaction is, you know her and what her comfort level is when it comes to broaching the subject. If she is not totally turned off by it then casually bring it up and take it a step further. I had a gf that one afternoon after having some really good sex she wanted to go get something to eat and asked me to hand her her bra, I took the opportunity to goof around and held it up to my man boobs flirting with her saying how do I look I think I could rock this, she laughed and said I bet you can come here lets see and she had me put my arms through the straps and she hooked me up, I never fully dressed fem for her but wearing bras and panties became part of our sex life. Its all finding the right way to bring up the subject. Good luck go slow and be patient