Question - How to connect in 2020?

[Anne]

Ladies - 

Now that we are all under house arrest and CL has not been a thing for a while, how does a man (like myself) 'connect' with a nice local gurl in 2020?

What sites are available?

Is there anything left that is really free, or is everything just bot-created lies behind a paywall?

Any assistance would be appreciated greatly,

Weightlifter Daddy

Have you tried www.fetlife.com ?
You can register for free (there are perks for becoming a paying supporter) and even as a free member, you can join groups and peruse ads that could help you find that special someone.