06-03-2018, 01:57 PM
Happy Sunday Ladies....
Hope everyone is having a wonderful weekend wherever you are at.
So I recently saw a couple different postings on the net over the past little while.
One was from a transgendered woman who now lives full time as woman, who in
her words still considers herself to be a sissy. hhhmmmm
Then I also happen to see a post somewhere that stated most cross dressers are
typically straight males. hmmmm again.
I am sure that I am no different from most of you girls here, in that we all have our own
fantasies and or own thoughts regarding what being en femme means to us, or why
we enjoy it.
I have always enjoyed the feel of women's clothing as far back as I can remember but
it was always a hidden thing. Hidden from everyone including a wife at that time as well.
Now that I am considerably older and on my own I care less about what people think.
Ultimately my main concern in hiding it is from kids and my brother. My kids because
I have always been the protector and well of course DAD. Although there are probably
signs for them to pick up on if they chose to look for them. I keep myself hairless,
I wear women's deodorant now, pretty much exclusively only wear panties and times
where I couldn't always remove make up properly or totally from the night before.
And from my brother because well, he's the kind of guy we all fear when we are out and
about en femme and hope we don't run into.
I may or not have to cross a bridge with him at some point in the future as I had started
breast enlargement over the past 6 months, and I for sure have breasts at this point. Not
porn star tities or anything like that lol.
So I started wondering to myself what I am. Where I am I going with this. How far do I want to
take this. Or rather how brave am I. I know that I wont completely transition if for no other reason
then the cost of it....
I am Bi and I believe that I am more than just a casual cross dresser as I would prefer to be more
femme looking then male. Because I am Bi does that take me out of the typical cross dresser
category.
If when I fantasize about being taken by 3 guys while on my knees servicing them am I sissy or
a trapped cross dresser or just a fag as some would call me. If when I am home alone listening
to music and trying on new outfits or new make up samples, am I just a prancing bimbo?
I was in a relationship with a dominant lady once and this allowed me to live out a lot of different
fantasies that I had and outside work enjoy being submissive to the right partner. At work I am
a management type and can run my ship as effectively as anyone else. She once commented that
I have the best of both worlds at times. That I have within me the ability to both dominant when I need
to be and submissive when I choose to be.
I once did one of those online silly quiz things that you see on porn sites or tumblr and my score for
the quiz had me at 36 points out 50. So apparantly I am a gurly cock addicted slut, 4 points shy
of being a total gurly bimbo cock starved whore.
Which brings me back to the original question. Are we femme,sissy,gurly, sluts etc....
I dis like the fact that every thing these days seems to have a label attatched to it regardless of the situation
or theme in which it is being regarded to.
After everything that I have done or tried, after everything that I have participated in has brought me to where
I am now. I love being able to say that I have done this or that. I love where I am at and everything has made
me who I am today. I am not perfect in many peoples eyes but I am the perfect version of me regardless of any
one persons label. I can only be me and not some one else.
So I have decided that I am all of the labels. I am a cross dresser, typical or not. I am sissy when I want to be.
I am en femme, I am a fag, I am a slave to my own desires, I am a gurly addicted cock slut and yes even a bimbo
at times.
I will proudly where all these labels and not be concerned. I am who I am and I am pretty happy with that.
I hope that we all here can be who we want to be....
Cheers
Dana
Hope everyone is having a wonderful weekend wherever you are at.
So I recently saw a couple different postings on the net over the past little while.
One was from a transgendered woman who now lives full time as woman, who in
her words still considers herself to be a sissy. hhhmmmm
Then I also happen to see a post somewhere that stated most cross dressers are
typically straight males. hmmmm again.
I am sure that I am no different from most of you girls here, in that we all have our own
fantasies and or own thoughts regarding what being en femme means to us, or why
we enjoy it.
I have always enjoyed the feel of women's clothing as far back as I can remember but
it was always a hidden thing. Hidden from everyone including a wife at that time as well.
Now that I am considerably older and on my own I care less about what people think.
Ultimately my main concern in hiding it is from kids and my brother. My kids because
I have always been the protector and well of course DAD. Although there are probably
signs for them to pick up on if they chose to look for them. I keep myself hairless,
I wear women's deodorant now, pretty much exclusively only wear panties and times
where I couldn't always remove make up properly or totally from the night before.
And from my brother because well, he's the kind of guy we all fear when we are out and
about en femme and hope we don't run into.
I may or not have to cross a bridge with him at some point in the future as I had started
breast enlargement over the past 6 months, and I for sure have breasts at this point. Not
porn star tities or anything like that lol.
So I started wondering to myself what I am. Where I am I going with this. How far do I want to
take this. Or rather how brave am I. I know that I wont completely transition if for no other reason
then the cost of it....
I am Bi and I believe that I am more than just a casual cross dresser as I would prefer to be more
femme looking then male. Because I am Bi does that take me out of the typical cross dresser
category.
If when I fantasize about being taken by 3 guys while on my knees servicing them am I sissy or
a trapped cross dresser or just a fag as some would call me. If when I am home alone listening
to music and trying on new outfits or new make up samples, am I just a prancing bimbo?
I was in a relationship with a dominant lady once and this allowed me to live out a lot of different
fantasies that I had and outside work enjoy being submissive to the right partner. At work I am
a management type and can run my ship as effectively as anyone else. She once commented that
I have the best of both worlds at times. That I have within me the ability to both dominant when I need
to be and submissive when I choose to be.
I once did one of those online silly quiz things that you see on porn sites or tumblr and my score for
the quiz had me at 36 points out 50. So apparantly I am a gurly cock addicted slut, 4 points shy
of being a total gurly bimbo cock starved whore.
Which brings me back to the original question. Are we femme,sissy,gurly, sluts etc....
I dis like the fact that every thing these days seems to have a label attatched to it regardless of the situation
or theme in which it is being regarded to.
After everything that I have done or tried, after everything that I have participated in has brought me to where
I am now. I love being able to say that I have done this or that. I love where I am at and everything has made
me who I am today. I am not perfect in many peoples eyes but I am the perfect version of me regardless of any
one persons label. I can only be me and not some one else.
So I have decided that I am all of the labels. I am a cross dresser, typical or not. I am sissy when I want to be.
I am en femme, I am a fag, I am a slave to my own desires, I am a gurly addicted cock slut and yes even a bimbo
at times.
I will proudly where all these labels and not be concerned. I am who I am and I am pretty happy with that.
I hope that we all here can be who we want to be....
Cheers
Dana