03-02-2016, 09:09 PM
My fem name was born about 10 years ago when I was working a contract in Austin TX. I had been a closet CD for several decades already but had never been out. My first day in Austin was a Saturday and I found this little boutique that specialized in CD'ers, much like JC's. I was scared to enter but eventually did. I explained how and why I was there and was immediately 'adopted'. Because I was from out of town they knew that I would have lots of after work free time. I was encouraged to dress up and join them on nights out. Because I was excited to do so, I needed a name that suited me and that I would know to respond to. Somehow Nicole was suggested and it seemed to fit. I've been Nicole ever since. 
