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Had quite a day today. I'v been cross dressing on and off a long time but always on the Q.T. Was caught twice by my wife years back and once by my daughter. Now that I'm a widower I have more time to dress at home. I still have not gone out in public fully dressed as a women.
It now seems I have taken the attitude that I will dress as I like when I like at home. Most days if not going out I will wear nylons of some kind, toe nails polished 99% of the time, fingers polished 60% of the time and lipstick.
Well today I did all that plus wore my ballet flats. An old friend from work called me and said she was here in Monroe and wanted to stop over. I said sure. When she go here I still was dressed. I even freshened my lipstick. It was great sitting for 2 hours on the swing on the deck 2 feet apart and bullshit. Shoes , nylons , lipstick , and red nails. Not one comment made , no questions asked.
Did I take a bold step? Will it be a fateful turning point? I don't know. I'm sure word will get out at sometime or some day.
cindyv
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Hi Cindy, How exciting. I sounds to me like you showed poise and confidence, that puts people at ease. I hope your friendship with this woman can handle it, maybe talk about it sometime just so she knows its ok to acknowledge. I hope you have found an ally.
Hugs & Kisses,
Tami
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(09-26-2020, 10:16 PM)cindyv Wrote: Had quite a day today. I'v been cross dressing on and off a long time but always on the Q.T. Was caught twice by my wife years back and once by my daughter. Now that I'm a widower I have more time to dress at home. I still have not gone out in public fully dressed as a women.
It now seems I have taken the attitude that I will dress as I like when I like at home. Most days if not going out I will wear nylons of some kind, toe nails polished 99% of the time, fingers polished 60% of the time and lipstick.
Well today I did all that plus wore my ballet flats. An old friend from work called me and said she was here in Monroe and wanted to stop over. I said sure. When she go here I still was dressed. I even freshened my lipstick. It was great sitting for 2 hours on the swing on the deck 2 feet apart and bullshit. Shoes , nylons , lipstick , and red nails. Not one comment made , no questions asked.
Did I take a bold step? Will it be a fateful turning point? I don't know. I'm sure word will get out at sometime or some day.
cindyv
Hi, Cindy. I think you took a bold step. You have to live your life the way that makes you happy. The fact that your friend visited for a couple hours says she is probably a true friend. Enjoy being you. All the best. Maxine
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That's great news Cindy. Life is too short, as you must know to not do the things which are important to you!
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(09-26-2020, 10:16 PM)cindyv Wrote: Had quite a day today. I'v been cross dressing on and off a long time but always on the Q.T. Was caught twice by my wife years back and once by my daughter. Now that I'm a widower I have more time to dress at home. I still have not gone out in public fully dressed as a women.
It now seems I have taken the attitude that I will dress as I like when I like at home. Most days if not going out I will wear nylons of some kind, toe nails polished 99% of the time, fingers polished 60% of the time and lipstick.
Well today I did all that plus wore my ballet flats. An old friend from work called me and said she was here in Monroe like https://astroworldmerch.net/ and wanted to stop over. I said sure. When she go here I still was dressed. I even freshened my lipstick. It was great sitting for 2 hours on the swing on the deck 2 feet apart and bullshit. Shoes , nylons , lipstick , and red nails. Not one comment made , no questions asked.
Did I take a bold step? Will it be a fateful turning point? I don't know. I'm sure word will get out at sometime or some day.
cindyv
yes you are right about it