New to this but excited

[Wearpantiesbutwantmore]

Hey I’m Jess......I’ve been wearing panties while my wife is out of town... 2 times a month... I’ve tried to tell her I’d like to wear panties and she doesn’t want to hear about it... recently love the feel of pantyhose and not sure where to go from here.. very confused but also excited.. any comments or suggestions would be greatly appreciated

[Anne]

Hi WP,
IMO, it's all about experimentation and seeing how far you want to take this.  Do you just want to wear undergarments?  Do you want to discover and enjoy the world of women's fashion by wearing all the different styles of blouses, dresses, skirts, leggings, etc.  Do you want to create a more passable look...do you want to wear breastforms underneath....do you want to wear padded panties to give your hips/bottom that more curvy womanly shape?  Then there is the makeup aspect.  Do you want to learn about applying makeup?


And then there is your relationship aspect with your wife.   She has indicated that she wants no part of this (if I am inferring correctly).  So if you continue with this, you either need to get her approval to wear women's clothing (which probably involves establishing rules as to when she says you can do it and where-privately vs publicly).  So if you are going to do this without her approval, now you have to dress behind her back and be stealth about it.  No question though that the pink fog can be quite strong and our desires to cross dress can be irresistible.

Whatever you decide, enjoy the journey and ask any questions that we can possibly answer for you.

[Wearpantiesbutwantmore]

Thanks Anne,

You've given me a lot to contemplate... at first it was just panties and stockings how nice they caressed my body and made me feel sexy, but only getting to wear them a couple times a month was driving me crazy.. then I started watching sissy porn and it opened a whole new world for me.. I'm not sure how far I'd go or where to.even begin... so many thoughts especially when I'm alone and drinking...lol. I just get so excited thinking about the possibilities but also get very embarrassed to talk about or even shop for things.. I'm glad I found your place to get this off my chest

[Anne]

Thanks Anne,

You've given me a lot to contemplate... at first it was just panties  and stockings how nice they caressed my body and made me feel sexy, but only getting to wear them a couple times a month was driving me crazy.. then I started watching sissy porn and it opened a whole  new world for me.. I'm not sure how far I'd go or where to.even begin... so many thoughts especially when I'm alone and drinking...lol.  I just get so excited  thinking about  the possibilities  but also get very embarrassed to talk about or even shop for things.. I'm glad I found your place to get this off my chest

No need to be embarrassed about it.  So many of us share the same feelings as you.  If you do start accumulating stuff, you will want to give thought as to how and where you will store your things if doing this in stealth mode.  You will probably go shopping for clothes as your male self as I have.  Like many, you will probably feel the whole world is watching you when you go the first time to shop for women's clothes for yourself.  You will discover that noone is really watching or caring what you are doing.  If a worker approaches you and asks if you need help, you can kindly decline and if they ask who you are shopping for ( a sales tactic so they can find something for you to buy ) you can simply say you are shopping for your wife or a niece and let them know you are ok and don't need help.  You may initially be challenged trying to figure out sizes.  When you buy something, make sure you leave the tags on so that you can return/exchange if the size is not correct or you don't like the item.  Most likely you will take the item home and then try it on there.  Some CD shoppers will take their item(s) to the mens dressing room and try it on there.  That's a matter of personal choice.  I can tell you that I am 5'8" and 150 lbs.  I wear a size 10 or 12 in slacks and dresses depending upon make.  I wear a size 9 in mens shoes so in women's shoes I wear a size 10 for the most women's shoes/heels.   If you want to buy something online, let me know and I can advise you how to go about this so can have something shipped/delivered without your wife knowing.

[Wearpantiesbutwantmore]

Thank you so much for all your help and information, you inspired me to go out and grab an amazing set of lingerie "for my wife" lol I canr wait to visit JC and see what kind of ideas I get there... thanks again

[Wearpantiesbutwantmore]

I posted some "stories" y'all.. feel free to tell me what you think and if you gurls want more...xoxo.. I love I have a place to let the girl inside me out... I was dying in there....

Xoxo

Jessie