06-22-2018, 11:04 PM
Hello,
As my screen name suggests, I'm Heather.
Quick "backstory" to get you up to speed. Same old story, as a kid I tried mom's clothes and sister's nail paints. I knew that it felt right but 35 - 40 years ago, it wasn't "ok" in society.
I got married, wife knew I had tried on some of her clothes. Before we married, I loved her tights and leotards. I used to sleep in them! Fast forward 12 years, I attended a couple of Fetish Balls in a skirt and fishnets at Halloween. A couple of years later, she decided that since he had obtained her citizenship I was no longer needed.
When I moved out, I had ventured out a couple of times at night but rarely got out of the car. I was pretty good at shifting in 5" heels, too.
After a while, i dated a couple of women and totally hid my alter persona from them. After a couple of one sided relationships, I realized that a very long time friend was my soulmate. Really, she made the moves on me! I re-married and purged almost everything. The only things I kept were my 5" heels. Two years ago, my wife was browsing for clothes and underwear online and I expressed my desires to her. Her initial reaction was fear and discomfort. We talked for many hours about my situation. I respect her statement of "I didn't marry a woman" and she respects my need to be the real me. Spouse has accepted my and is fully supportive. Around the house, I'm Heather almost exclusively. When we go out for fast food, spouse usually drives and Heather is in the passenger seat. If we go into the city, Heather often drives home. She's filled the gas tank multiple times. She's working up the courage to spend a day shopping in the city. The one time I went out during the day as Heather, I never felt I was stared at and had zero negative responses although I did get referred to as "sir" one time.
Thanks for reading my not so quick bio.
Heather.
As my screen name suggests, I'm Heather.
Quick "backstory" to get you up to speed. Same old story, as a kid I tried mom's clothes and sister's nail paints. I knew that it felt right but 35 - 40 years ago, it wasn't "ok" in society.
I got married, wife knew I had tried on some of her clothes. Before we married, I loved her tights and leotards. I used to sleep in them! Fast forward 12 years, I attended a couple of Fetish Balls in a skirt and fishnets at Halloween. A couple of years later, she decided that since he had obtained her citizenship I was no longer needed.
When I moved out, I had ventured out a couple of times at night but rarely got out of the car. I was pretty good at shifting in 5" heels, too.
After a while, i dated a couple of women and totally hid my alter persona from them. After a couple of one sided relationships, I realized that a very long time friend was my soulmate. Really, she made the moves on me! I re-married and purged almost everything. The only things I kept were my 5" heels. Two years ago, my wife was browsing for clothes and underwear online and I expressed my desires to her. Her initial reaction was fear and discomfort. We talked for many hours about my situation. I respect her statement of "I didn't marry a woman" and she respects my need to be the real me. Spouse has accepted my and is fully supportive. Around the house, I'm Heather almost exclusively. When we go out for fast food, spouse usually drives and Heather is in the passenger seat. If we go into the city, Heather often drives home. She's filled the gas tank multiple times. She's working up the courage to spend a day shopping in the city. The one time I went out during the day as Heather, I never felt I was stared at and had zero negative responses although I did get referred to as "sir" one time.
Thanks for reading my not so quick bio.
Heather.
