Are We Sissy or Femme, CD or Bimbo or ....?

[DanaLynn]

Happy Sunday Ladies....

Hope everyone is having a wonderful weekend wherever you are at.

So I recently saw a couple different postings on the net over the past little while.
One was from a transgendered woman who now lives full time as woman, who in
her words still considers herself to be a sissy.  hhhmmmm

Then I also happen to see a post somewhere that stated most cross dressers are
typically straight males. hmmmm again.

I am sure that I am no different from most of you girls here, in that we all have our own
fantasies and or own thoughts regarding what being en femme means to us, or why
we enjoy it.

I have always enjoyed the feel of women's clothing as far back as I can remember but
it was always a hidden thing. Hidden from everyone including a wife at that time as well.

Now that I am considerably older and on my own I care less about what people think.
Ultimately my main concern in hiding it is from kids and my brother. My kids because
I have always been the protector and well of course DAD. Although there are probably
signs for them to pick up on if they chose to look for them. I keep myself hairless,
I wear women's deodorant now, pretty much exclusively only wear panties and times
where I couldn't always remove make up properly or totally from the night before.
And from my brother because well, he's the kind of guy we all fear when we are out and
about en femme and hope we don't run into.

I may or not have to cross a bridge with him at some point in the future as I had started
breast enlargement over the past 6 months, and I for sure have breasts at this point. Not
porn star tities or anything like that lol.

So I started wondering to myself what I am. Where I am I going with this. How far do I want to
take this. Or rather how brave am I. I know that I wont completely transition if for no other reason
then the cost of it....

I am Bi and I believe that I am more than just a casual cross dresser as I would prefer to be more
femme looking then male. Because I am Bi does that take me out of the typical cross dresser
category.
If when I fantasize about being taken by 3 guys while on my knees servicing them am I sissy or
a trapped cross dresser or just a fag as some would call me. If when I am home alone listening
to music and trying on new outfits or new make up samples, am I just a prancing bimbo?

I was in a relationship with a dominant lady once and this allowed me to live out a lot of different
fantasies that I had and outside work enjoy being submissive to the right partner. At work I am
a management type and can run my ship as effectively as anyone else. She once commented that
I have the best of both worlds at times. That I have within me the ability to both dominant when I need
to be and submissive when I choose to be.

I once did one of those online silly quiz things that you see on porn sites or tumblr and my score for
the quiz had me at 36 points out 50. So apparantly I am a gurly cock addicted slut, 4 points shy
of being a total gurly bimbo cock starved whore.

Which brings me back to the original question. Are we femme,sissy,gurly, sluts etc....

I dis like the fact that every thing these days seems to have a label attatched to it regardless of the situation
or theme in which it is being regarded to.

After everything that I have done or tried, after everything that I have participated in has brought me to where
I am now. I love being able to say that I have done this or that. I love where I am at and everything has made
me who I am today. I am not perfect in many peoples eyes but I am the perfect version of me regardless of any
one persons label. I can only be me and not some one else.


So I have decided that I am all of the labels. I am a cross dresser, typical or not. I am sissy when I want to be.
I am en femme, I am a fag, I am a slave to my own desires, I am a gurly addicted cock slut and yes even a bimbo
at times.
I will proudly where all these labels and not be concerned. I am who I am and I am pretty happy with that.

I hope that we all here can be who we want to be....

Cheers
Dana

[michelle.busty]

Good job, Dana. I was getting worried as I read your message, but in the end you came to the exact right conclusion!

Michelle

[JenniferIN]

Very interesting read Dana. You touch on a lot of issues with one simple post and I agree with your assessment in the end that we are all different at different times.

I guess in my mind I do not identify as anything else but...me. I am who I am and while I am not out in the open with this, I don’t care about the labels society wants to place on us. I am me and that is the only label I subscribed to.

It will be interesting to debate this more in the future as all of us never reach a destination in this life. We are all on an ever changing journey...which makes this all so exciting.

Jen

[Mnewman111]

We are what we believe ourselves to be which can be many things depending on the moment.

[DanaLynn]

Good job, Dana.  I was getting worried as I read your message, but in the end you came to the exact right conclusion!

Michelle

Hello Michelle

Thanks for stopping by and having a read and for visiting my intro.
So nice to find a place where we can all express ourselves without
worrying about what others might think.

I am really enjoying the forum and have seen many items here at the store
that I am interested in. Can hardly wait to shop and buy a few things.
Sometimes I just get carried away and I want everything.....

Hugs and Kisses
Dana

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Very interesting read Dana. You touch on a lot of issues with one simple post and I agree with your assessment in the end that we are all different at different times.

I guess in my mind I do not identify as anything else but...me. I am who I am and while I am not out in the open with this, I don’t care about the labels society wants to place on us. I am me and that is the only label I subscribed to.

It will be interesting to debate this more in the future as all of us never reach a destination in this life. We are all on an ever changing journey...which makes this all so exciting.

Jen

Hi Jen

Hope this response finds you doing well.

I spend a bit of time wandering around the internet looking at things and really did see
those interviews and it had got me thinking.....thinking obviously about myself and wondered
more whether I was the only one who thought these things.

Based on the private messages that I received we all have lots to say on the matter....

And I am not totally out either about things, but I do want to take this as far as I can without
risking to much or going beyond a real point of no return where I get myself in too much trouble.

Feel free to send a line when ever you feel like chatting.....

Hugs
Dana

[Jasmine Reynolds]

I appreciate your prospective as I've never been one for labels instead of descriptions. I'd rather just say what it is I am doing or enjoy instead of using a label. Like I'm a man that enjoys dressing up and acting femme, I don't care what people call that, that's what I like. I'm also extremely attracted to the entirety of the female body whereas there's only one small part of the male body I enjoy, well hopefully not too small of a part ?. Does that make me bi? Again, don't care what it's called. There's also a plethora of aspects of sexuality that interest me and I study and research, my dream life would be to dedicate my time to all things sex, toys/techniques/equipment/education/etc, does that make me a sex addict, don't care what it's called. There's too much attention on labels and not enough focus on the fact we're all individuals. To quote a childhood hero of mine: " I am what I am, and that's all that I am." (I'm Popeye the sailor man,lol)

[DanaLynn]

I appreciate your prospective as I've never been one for labels instead of descriptions. I'd rather just say what it is I am doing or enjoy instead of using a label. Like I'm a man that enjoys dressing up and acting femme, I don't care what people call that, that's what I like. I'm also extremely attracted to the entirety of the female body whereas there's only one small part of the male body I enjoy, well hopefully not too small of a part ?. Does that make me bi? Again, don't care what it's called. There's also a plethora of aspects of sexuality that interest me and I study and research, my dream life would be to dedicate my time to all things sex, toys/techniques/equipment/education/etc, does that make me a sex addict, don't care what it's called. There's too much attention on labels and not enough focus on the fact we're all individuals. To quote a childhood hero of mine: " I am what I am, and that's all that I am." (I'm Popeye the sailor man,lol)

Hi Jasmine

Thank you for taking the time to stop by and read my blurb or vent as it were and even more so to take the
time to write a comment.
I am not surprised with the labels, its just every where I go and read and or research something, there is always
a label attached to it. A little disheartening that we all want to put in some sort of category.

I love the female body and the male body. I enjoy both as well...and yes especially when its not to small of a part.
If i had that dream job that you mentioned, I would never leave the house, and my boy part would be raw....

I was a big fan of popeye growing up. watched the cartoon all the time. Guess I just dated myself.

Hugs  
Dana

[Victoria]

Hi Dana,
My sentiments too. Exactly! I am older and have become stronger in my desire to dress and stronger too in my desire for the affection of males. As an older male the field of possible paramours has diminished but it becomes much larger, as most of us can attest to, when provocatively dressed.

[Slutboy57]

Thanks for sharing...I too have mixed feelings. Professionally I'm the Captain, large and in charge. In private I'm a submissive slut. I haven't crossed dressed (yet) but I have been wearing lacey panties for awhile now. And after getting caught in a restroom at a rest stop with pink panties on and serving a truckdriver in his truck, I have been more open to looking at dressing as a different course.