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Sexual preference when I'm femm
#21
Too long, but...
Top or bottom? I agree with several other posts, it does not matter to you or your lover. Let it flow. Formulaic lovemaking takes me back to high school when I had no experience, and had a mental check list to run through. I am the same person years later, and still had a notion of lists on every new experience. Then I had a lover with an even more detailed list and was frustrated by her intense focus on proper performance, not enjoyment. As we shared, I got her to throw her list away and discover herself in a flow of passion and feelings.

As I slipped on my panties the first time, I realized I was mentally creating new lists. I stopped myself and said, “Feel, sense, flow.” The first time I met someone in lingerie, I felt like a man wearing woman’s underthings. Had fun, but nothing special. While reading a post here last week, I agreed with a comment that when dressed I wanted to be pleased as a woman, not a horny old goat getting off. It was a revelation to me though I had been living with that freedom for several years.

I realized that in the past several years my mental process had caught up with me emotions. I wanted to be a woman, I felt the penetration as a woman might (I cannot really know), whether on top or bottom, being the aggressor at the moment or submissively letting him lead, for the moment.

Two weeks ago, I rented a room when I was feeling really horny. I slipped into thigh highs, a thong, a matching open shelf bra, and a see through cover. I applied light makeup, enough to show I intended to please but not really made up, and put on a short brown/gray wig. And I waited, hoping.

The first guy answering the post looked shocked, disappointed and took an oral gift. Another guy played along and was more satisfying with a passionate anal. But he was not committed. The third guy kept texting saying he was on his way. I needed to start getting ready to leave, but stayed. He knocked, and when he entered he said I was a divine creature. He treated me like a woman in every way, most importantly, emotionally. I melted. I was so happy, and top and bottom both worked equally as well.
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#22
(01-05-2019, 07:44 AM)Aden Wrote: Too long, but...
Top or bottom? I agree with several other posts, it does not matter to you or your lover. Let it flow. Formulaic lovemaking takes me back to high school when I had no experience, and had a mental check list to run through. I am the same person years later, and still had a notion of lists on every new experience. Then I had a lover with an even more detailed list and was frustrated by her intense focus on proper performance, not enjoyment. As we shared, I got her to throw her list away and discover herself in a flow of passion and feelings.

As I slipped on my panties the first time, I realized I was mentally creating new lists. I stopped myself and said, “Feel, sense, flow.” The first time I met someone in lingerie, I felt like a man wearing woman’s underthings. Had fun, but nothing special. While reading a post here last week, I agreed with a comment that when dressed I wanted to be pleased as a woman, not a horny old goat getting off. It was a revelation to me though I had been living with that freedom for several years.

I realized that in the past several years my mental process had caught up with me emotions. I wanted to be a woman, I felt the penetration as a woman might (I cannot really know), whether on top or bottom, being the aggressor at the moment or submissively letting him lead, for the moment.

Two weeks ago, I rented a room when I was feeling really horny. I slipped into thigh highs, a thong, a matching open shelf bra, and a see through cover. I applied light makeup, enough to show I intended to please but not really made up, and put on a short brown/gray wig. And I waited, hoping.

The first guy answering the post looked shocked, disappointed and took an oral gift. Another guy played along and was more satisfying with a passionate anal. But he was not committed. The third guy kept texting saying he was on his way. I needed to start getting ready to leave, but stayed. He knocked, and when he entered he said I was a divine creature. He treated me like a woman in every way, most importantly, emotionally. I melted. I was so happy, and top and bottom both worked equally as well.
Sounds like an exciting night

(01-05-2019, 07:44 AM)Aden Wrote: Too long, but...
Top or bottom? I agree with several other posts, it does not matter to you or your lover. Let it flow. Formulaic lovemaking takes me back to high school when I had no experience, and had a mental check list to run through. I am the same person years later, and still had a notion of lists on every new experience. Then I had a lover with an even more detailed list and was frustrated by her intense focus on proper performance, not enjoyment. As we shared, I got her to throw her list away and discover herself in a flow of passion and feelings.

As I slipped on my panties the first time, I realized I was mentally creating new lists. I stopped myself and said, “Feel, sense, flow.” The first time I met someone in lingerie, I felt like a man wearing woman’s underthings. Had fun, but nothing special. While reading a post here last week, I agreed with a comment that when dressed I wanted to be pleased as a woman, not a horny old goat getting off. It was a revelation to me though I had been living with that freedom for several years.

I realized that in the past several years my mental process had caught up with me emotions. I wanted to be a woman, I felt the penetration as a woman might (I cannot really know), whether on top or bottom, being the aggressor at the moment or submissively letting him lead, for the moment.

Two weeks ago, I rented a room when I was feeling really horny. I slipped into thigh highs, a thong, a matching open shelf bra, and a see through cover. I applied light makeup, enough to show I intended to please but not really made up, and put on a short brown/gray wig. And I waited, hoping.

The first guy answering the post looked shocked, disappointed and took an oral gift. Another guy played along and was more satisfying with a passionate anal. But he was not committed. The third guy kept texting saying he was on his way. I needed to start getting ready to leave, but stayed. He knocked, and when he entered he said I was a divine creature. He treated me like a woman in every way, most importantly, emotionally. I melted. I was so happy, and top and bottom both worked equally as well.
Sounds like an exciting night

(01-05-2019, 07:44 AM)Aden Wrote: Too long, but...
Top or bottom? I agree with several other posts, it does not matter to you or your lover. Let it flow. Formulaic lovemaking takes me back to high school when I had no experience, and had a mental check list to run through. I am the same person years later, and still had a notion of lists on every new experience. Then I had a lover with an even more detailed list and was frustrated by her intense focus on proper performance, not enjoyment. As we shared, I got her to throw her list away and discover herself in a flow of passion and feelings.

As I slipped on my panties the first time, I realized I was mentally creating new lists. I stopped myself and said, “Feel, sense, flow.” The first time I met someone in lingerie, I felt like a man wearing woman’s underthings. Had fun, but nothing special. While reading a post here last week, I agreed with a comment that when dressed I wanted to be pleased as a woman, not a horny old goat getting off. It was a revelation to me though I had been living with that freedom for several years.

I realized that in the past several years my mental process had caught up with me emotions. I wanted to be a woman, I felt the penetration as a woman might (I cannot really know), whether on top or bottom, being the aggressor at the moment or submissively letting him lead, for the moment.

Two weeks ago, I rented a room when I was feeling really horny. I slipped into thigh highs, a thong, a matching open shelf bra, and a see through cover. I applied light makeup, enough to show I intended to please but not really made up, and put on a short brown/gray wig. And I waited, hoping.

The first guy answering the post looked shocked, disappointed and took an oral gift. Another guy played along and was more satisfying with a passionate anal. But he was not committed. The third guy kept texting saying he was on his way. I needed to start getting ready to leave, but stayed. He knocked, and when he entered he said I was a divine creature. He treated me like a woman in every way, most importantly, emotionally. I melted. I was so happy, and top and bottom both worked equally as well.
Sounds like an exciting night

(01-05-2019, 07:44 AM)Aden Wrote: Too long, but...
Top or bottom? I agree with several other posts, it does not matter to you or your lover. Let it flow. Formulaic lovemaking takes me back to high school when I had no experience, and had a mental check list to run through. I am the same person years later, and still had a notion of lists on every new experience. Then I had a lover with an even more detailed list and was frustrated by her intense focus on proper performance, not enjoyment. As we shared, I got her to throw her list away and discover herself in a flow of passion and feelings.

As I slipped on my panties the first time, I realized I was mentally creating new lists. I stopped myself and said, “Feel, sense, flow.” The first time I met someone in lingerie, I felt like a man wearing woman’s underthings. Had fun, but nothing special. While reading a post here last week, I agreed with a comment that when dressed I wanted to be pleased as a woman, not a horny old goat getting off. It was a revelation to me though I had been living with that freedom for several years.

I realized that in the past several years my mental process had caught up with me emotions. I wanted to be a woman, I felt the penetration as a woman might (I cannot really know), whether on top or bottom, being the aggressor at the moment or submissively letting him lead, for the moment.

Two weeks ago, I rented a room when I was feeling really horny. I slipped into thigh highs, a thong, a matching open shelf bra, and a see through cover. I applied light makeup, enough to show I intended to please but not really made up, and put on a short brown/gray wig. And I waited, hoping.

The first guy answering the post looked shocked, disappointed and took an oral gift. Another guy played along and was more satisfying with a passionate anal. But he was not committed. The third guy kept texting saying he was on his way. I needed to start getting ready to leave, but stayed. He knocked, and when he entered he said I was a divine creature. He treated me like a woman in every way, most importantly, emotionally. I melted. I was so happy, and top and bottom both worked equally as well.
Sounds like an exciting night
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#23
(04-17-2013, 10:41 AM)Veronica Wrote: Top,bottom or versatile?when in femm mode

Ooooh, since that is something I have yet to reach on my journey, I can't say for certain.  In my head and in my fantasies, I choose "bottom" - I want to be the "girl" in the relationship!

And considering I am questioning my sexuality even as my male-self, I could very well go "bottom" when NOT dressed!

Time will tell if my "Maria" self will be a part-time experience, or if I will go full-time trans (part of the fun in the journey, right?!)
Heart Big Grin Heart
~ Maria
HeartT.G.I.F. (Thank Goodness I'm Femme!) 

"Loneliness, a constant friend and lover I know well..."
('One Step Closer' by Asia)

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#24
When dressed I feel so turned on I can't explain it.  I'm inexperienced, but desire to be with another gurl, I think this would be a soft step towards a man, but I don't really know.  I'd like to both pleasures of being top and bottom.  Maybe someday....
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#25
When dressed, I am always in a gurl for gurl mood, where I would be very sub, or bottom. Something about being controlled or drugged and forced..(nudged little by little) to be a naughty girl that is very much a turn on for me.
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#26
Hi Gurls this one seems to been on hold since pandemic started. Couldn’t resist putting my response !
I would mimic Jodie or in Lorren put it straight when in Men clothes but when I’m dressed I become a cock craving slut. My preference is to have a stud on top of me and watch his eyes grow glassy as he pumps me full of his nectar. When it comes to boy versus gurl, they both offer cock so I’m torn .
Love these kinds of decisions both a delicious option!!
Hugs
Sara
Enjoy, be brave, live the life you will be proud of!! Rolleyes
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#27
Dare I make a small confession here? I suppose so.

I've always been pretty firmly hetro, men as such don't turn me on dressed or not. I do go out en femme a reasonable amount, and have been "chatted up" a few times, and I've found I enjoy some male attention when dressed though I don't want to go any further at all.
Where it gets mixed up for me is when I meet a pretty crossdresser, gurl, trans, whatever term you want to use as it is femininity which is attractive to me, and I start to wonder how it might be to make out with her.
One night after dinner a very lovely gurl I'd never met before moved over to me to discuss an upcoming event, and was sitting beside me rubbing her stocking'd legs against mine!
Oh my, was that a bit of a turn on for me, maybe her too but it didn't go any further. She is trans with small natural boobs and the outfit was somewhat revealing of them which just upped the sexy appeal.
So what could happen in a different situation, who knows.

Then, a few weeks later I'm watching some bi porn with my SO (a woman) where this pretty chick is getting spit roasted by two guys, and I was starting to think I'd like to be her! My SO would definitely NOT tolerate me having an affair like this, so it will have to stay a fantasy.
Since then I can't seem to get that out of my head. Works in with the subby tendencies I'm having, used to call myself a switch, as I used to really enjoy being top but lately I just want to bottom now.

My confession gurls.
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#28
(02-06-2022, 12:07 PM)CanuckGirl Wrote: Dare I make a small confession here? I suppose so.

I've always been pretty firmly hetro, men as such don't turn me on dressed or not. I do go out en femme a reasonable amount, and have been "chatted up" a few times, and I've found I enjoy some male attention when dressed though I don't want to go any further at all.
Where it gets mixed up for me is when I meet a pretty crossdresser, gurl, trans, whatever term you want to use as it is femininity which is attractive to me, and I start to wonder how it might be to make out with her.
One night after dinner a very lovely gurl I'd never met before moved over to me to discuss an upcoming event, and was sitting beside me rubbing her stocking'd legs against mine!
Oh my, was that a bit of a turn on for me, maybe her too but it didn't go any further. She is trans with small natural boobs and the outfit was somewhat revealing of them which just upped the sexy appeal.
So what could happen in a different situation, who knows.

Then, a few weeks later I'm watching some bi porn with my SO (a woman) where this pretty chick is getting spit roasted  by two guys, and I was starting to think I'd like to be her! My SO would definitely NOT tolerate me having an affair like this, so it will have to stay a fantasy.
Since then I can't seem to get that out of my head. Works in with the subby tendencies I'm having, used to call myself a switch, as I used to really enjoy being top but lately I just want to bottom now.

My confession gurls.

Nice confession, if only life mimicked our fantasies more often❤️
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#29
(02-08-2022, 09:02 AM)Sara69 Wrote:
(02-06-2022, 12:07 PM)CanuckGirl Wrote: Dare I make a small confession here? I suppose so.

I've always been pretty firmly hetro, men as such don't turn me on dressed or not. I do go out en femme a reasonable amount, and have been "chatted up" a few times, and I've found I enjoy some male attention when dressed though I don't want to go any further at all.
Where it gets mixed up for me is when I meet a pretty crossdresser, gurl, trans, whatever term you want to use as it is femininity which is attractive to me, and I start to wonder how it might be to make out with her.
One night after dinner a very lovely gurl I'd never met before moved over to me to discuss an upcoming event, and was sitting beside me rubbing her stocking'd legs against mine!
Oh my, was that a bit of a turn on for me, maybe her too but it didn't go any further. She is trans with small natural boobs and the outfit was somewhat revealing of them which just upped the sexy appeal.
So what could happen in a different situation, who knows.

Then, a few weeks later I'm watching some bi porn with my SO (a woman) where this pretty chick is getting spit roasted  by two guys, and I was starting to think I'd like to be her! My SO would definitely NOT tolerate me having an affair like this, so it will have to stay a fantasy.
Since then I can't seem to get that out of my head. Works in with the subby tendencies I'm having, used to call myself a switch, as I used to really enjoy being top but lately I just want to bottom now.

My confession gurls.

Nice confession, if only life mimicked our fantasies more often❤️

Thanks Sara. Is this a good or bad thing? As I do have fantasies about being a sissy maid at a party too. Oh My.
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#30
    Fantasies are a GREAT thing!  

And I have to confess that I was a sissy maid at a party myself.  It isn't my usual mode of expression, but I had been asked by a friend (a CD Domme) if I wanted to explore the role, and being a very inquisitive girl, I agreed. It was a party that lasted from a Friday afternoon, until early on the following Monday morning.

I have to admit that I enjoyed myself immensely, and would do it again if the opportunity arose, but it isn't something I'd want to do all the time.  I'll see if I can upload a pic of one of the outfits I wore. Smile
Before you can love another, you HAVE to love yourself first
I aim to misbehave
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